Navigating Performances as a Drag and Burlesque Artist with Autism
A look into my personal tips and tricks when it comes to preparing for and navigating the performance scene as a performer with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder)
I've found over years of performing that neurodivergent people are often in performance spaces. But as I started working in and actively researching drag, I have found little resources on how fellow neurodivergents thrive in such a bustling community. Now that I've got a grasp of my own sense of self and my art, I figured it would be nice to create a post to make it an easier path for some of you.
Preparations:
I prefer to start preparing for my performances as early as possible. I will think up acts I want to do months in advance or start thinking of a costume the second the theme is released for themed shows. I do all of this planning to eliminate potential problems in my performances, and it's generally more stress-free when I have less to worry about. Unfortunately I also deal with a lot of executive dysfunction, so as much as I want to, sometimes I just can't bring myself to thoroughly prepare for a show. In cases like these, there's absolutely no shame in sticking to what you know! I will often reuse choreographic devices or costume pieces. If there's a new audience, I will often take this time to recycle an act. That way, I can tweak some things I would like improved, but don't have to worry about having nothing when showtime comes.
It's easiest to think about things that could potentially hinder your performing experience, such as:
Avoiding back-to-back booking to avoid exhaustion and burnout
Paying attention to the weather and plan your costume and equipment accordingly
Creating a packing checklist
Avoiding over-planning choreography, leave room for improv!
Wear a good primer/setting spray
Things to bring:
A list of some helpful things that I like to pack as well as things that I have heard others enjoy packing:
Sensory items -
Earplugs
Sunglasses
Earbuds
Lotion
Hand sanitizer
Deoderant
Fidget
Hairpins
Lash container
Shoe inserts
Trinkets-
Water
Protein bar
Fan
Charger
Slip on shoes
Comfortable clothes
Bag for money
While at the venue:
When I arrive, I always make sure that I'm comfortable. I frequently drive over an hour to the shows I perform in. So before I hop in the driver's seat, I always have a large drink in my cupholder (often a sweet tea; the caffeine gives me a little boost). I keep my lashes off and sunglasses on.
Once I arrive, I will finish getting ready almost immediately. After I make my rounds greeting everyone, I throw in my earbuds and finish doing my face. If I plan to wear one, I will save putting on my corset until closer to my performance time, as it saves some discomfort and makes bathroom breaks much easier.
I always make sure to mingle with the audience and my fellow performers before, during, and after a show. This not only helps me feel more comfortable in the space, but it also is a great way to make meaningful connections with the people around me! Many performers are in a similar boat as us, and it's good to have people close to you during such a dazzling experience, for both mutual comfort and mutual fun.
After the show ends, I'll change into something comfortable, oftentimes pajama pants or sweats if I'm headed straight home. If I happen to be going out afterward, I'll opt for a form-fitting, stretchy mini dress and lower heels.
At home:
I will often stop and pick up some fast food on the way home from a show if the commute is long. My personal favourite is Cookout. I tend to drop my bags the second I get home and take off my makeup. I leave reorganizing and money counting for the next day; nobody wants to do all of that at 3 a.m.
Everyone has different methods that work best for them and here I've shared some of mine! If you have any article requests, ideas, or complaints, feel free to email me through the website! Soon I will make posts about how I navigate other aspects of my job as an autistic performer. Some potential topics include (but are not limited to) marketing, networking, travelling, and lifestyle. Break a leg!
